Wednesday Woe with Wanda Worstwagger – A Guest In Your Bed

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By Wanda Worstwagger
Advice columnist (sort of)

 Dear Wanda:

My 10 yr old daughter often gets in our bed during the night.  She says she is having bad dreams.  I’m not sure I believe her.  She loves our bed and sleeping with us.  How do I stop this cycle?

Tired Mom


Dear Tired,

The experts will tell you to immediately get up and walk her back to her bed, multiple times a night if necessary. Tuck her in and let her be alone in her room until she goes back to sleep. Eventually, she’ll be able to soothe herself back to sleep without getting in your bed.

But in this case I’m not sure it’s going to be enough.

I’m afraid you may need to purchase a foam topper and heated mattress pad for her bed. The idea is to make her bed more comfortable than your bed. If she has a cozy nest to sleep in she’s less likely to want to get out of her bed and into yours. This is especially true if she’s not having bad dreams as you suspect. You also might offer her a reward for those nights she doesn’t crawl into your bed.

Wishing you better sleep,



Dear Reader,

I have had the privilege of sleeping in Tired Mom’s bed, and it is the most comfortable bed on this planet. I sometimes go lie on the bed just for fun when I visit her house.

What would you do if you had unwelcome guests in your bed at night? Leave your advice for Tired Mom in the comments. And anything else you’d like to say.







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{ 1 comment… read it below or add one }

me pen November 17, 2013 at 9:10 pm

Once upon a time i,too had a little girl that would come to sleep in our bed. I tried all the expert rules and still she came.Even locked the door so she slept on the floor outside door. I proposed one nite a week for sleepover with mommy. One day she was done with all of that. And i was sad. It’s part of mommy growing up.


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